TIME TESTED
When I first moved to O-town in 2006, I found employment at
Starbucks. I was working on building my own business with my father and worked
part time at the coffee shop for the insurance. One of my shift managers at the time was a tall blond with a
fiery attitude. She possessed the skills needed to run a crew efficiently and
still maintain a great relationship with her co-workers. Not only did she do
her job well but also she had been dedicated to the company for eight years.
Needless to say I was wondering why she was still there.
I have had this uncanny ability most of my life to see the
amazing potential in other people. A perception that seems to exist in most
people yet cultivated for the positive in very few. You see, most people like
to hate and tear down rather than build the person up. People will trash the
person with the most potential or sabotage the chances they have. Very few
people will help cultivate and build this potential in others. My mother was a
builder. I can recall one person she used to work with and how my mom trained
her and cultivated her for her job and then the girl ended up with the job
above my mom. This is the sort of thing that gets people mad and has them
become haters yet my mother just pushed on to bigger and better things.
Back to that hot blond for a moment and her boss that
promoted someone she trained. Instead of topping out at 30k a year and working
non-stop for people who do not appreciate the dedication, she took the advice
of this guy and quit. She struggled in finding that perfect fit for her but
soon ended up at a university where her dedication and brains became recognized
almost instantly. Two and a half years later and multiple promotions she is
kicking but and taking names. She even amazes herself at times with the
accolades she receives from her bosses and peers.
I would love to say this is all about me but I cannot.
The important thing is this woman’s attitude towards herself
and any other job she has had. Her head is held higher and her confidence is larger
than she ever expected. Every aspect of her life has changed because she began
to see what someone else saw already.
This is one person out of the many in my life that I believe
in. This is one out of the many successes in my life as well. This tall fiery
blond just so happens to be my wife. Nonetheless it is our ability to see
people and help foster that confidence that makes us human and compassionate.
If we began to foster help instead of hate we just might see the rewards are
greater than if we tried to take from everyone. I know this because that hot
blonde is now helping me complete my higher education and taking care of me in
the process.
That is called REWARD people!!
PAY IT FORWARD>>
Stay Tuned…